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Boredom Is the New Burnout: Finding Meaning After 50

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Boredom Is the New Burnout: Finding Meaning After 50

You literally spent decades grinding.

Early mornings, late nights, weekends, deadlines, bosses with “ideas,” and projects that somehow became your problem.

You used to fantasize about freedom:

“One day, I won’t have to do anything. It’ll be amazing.”

Well… surprise, surprise…

You finally have breathing room—and suddenly doing nothing feels less like freedom and more like being stuck in an elevator with your own thoughts.

Welcome to the new epidemic no one warned us about:

Boredom burnout.

It’s that weird, itchy feeling when you’re not stressed… but you’re also not satisfied.

You’re not exhausted… but you’re not energized either.

You’re just kind of… meh.

If burnout is running too fast for too long, boredom burnout is sitting still until your soul stiffens like an old hamstring.

But here’s the good news:

Life after 50 isn’t a slow decline. It’s a clean slate.

You’re not burned out — you’re under-challenged.

Let’s fix that, starting right now.

Step 1: Audit Your Excitement Levels

No video conference or PowerPoint required.

Ask yourself one question:

“What in my life right now makes me feel alive?”

Not “content”.

Not “comfortable”.

“Alive”.

If the most exciting part of your week is when Costco offers free samples, we’ve got an opportunity here.

Step 2: Stop Outsourcing Your Purpose

When we’re younger, our purpose is assigned to us:

  • Raise kids
  • Climb the career ladder
  • Pay bills
  • Don’t die

Once the list gets shorter, we suddenly have to choose our own purpose.

And nobody warned us how awkward that feels.

It’s like walking into an empty gym without a plan.

“I guess I’ll… walk around and touch stuff?”

Meaning isn’t found.

Meaning is built.

Step 3: Choose a New Identity (This Is Fun)

You’re not just “retired.”

You’re now:

  • The guy learning Italian
  • The guy who finally wrote that book
  • The guy who brews beer in his garage and gets way too into hops

Pick one:

“I am a man who _________.”

  • Travels to random minor league baseball stadiums
  • Rides his bike on every trail in the state
  • Volunteers once a week so his wife doesn’t kill him

You don’t need a grand cause.

Just direction.

Step 4: Do Something Slightly Uncomfortable

Not dangerous, mind you…

Just uncomfortable.

Examples:

  • Sign up for a class where you know no one
  • Join a hiking group, even if you’re the slowest
  • Play pickleball and own your terrible footwork

Discomfort creates growth.

Growth creates meaning.

Plus, younger people will look at you in awe, like:

“Check that guy out — he’s still trying.”

Step 5: Become a Beginner Again

Men over 50 hate being bad at things.

We want to be competent. At everything.

But competence is a trap.

Beginners have the most fun.

Try something where success is literally impossible to measure:

  • Drawing
  • Guitar
  • Salsa dancing
  • Shaping a piece of wood into a slightly nicer piece of wood

Being bad at something is freedom.

Step 6: Find Your Crew

You don’t need 50 friends.

You need three guys who would help you move a body.

When men lose purpose, what we’re often missing is connection.

Find your tribe:

  • Cycling group
  • Pickleball league
  • Men’s volunteer crew
  • Local coffee shop weirdos
  • A men’s prayer breakfast group

Meaning hides in community.

The Real Point

You don’t want to do nothing.

You want to do something that matters.

The antidote to boredom isn’t entertainment.

It’s engagement.

And here’s the secret nobody writes on motivational posters:

You don’t need a finish line to feel alive. You just need motion.

Move toward something.

Try new things.

Act like you’re not done.

Because you’re not.

Try This Challenge (Start Today)

Choose one:

  1. Sign up for something
  2. Schedule something
  3. Start something

Don’t overthink it.

And whatever you choose, say this out loud:

“I’m not winding down — I’m leveling up.”

Final Thought

You spent the first half of your life building a résumé.

Spend the second half building a legacy.

Meaning isn’t found in the calendar.

Meaning is found in motion.

Get out there and make it happen, you old geezer! 🙂

Gut Health for Older Dudes: Why You Feel Like a Balloon After Pizza

John Chesney
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Gut Health for Older Dudes: Why You Feel Like a Balloon After Pizza

Welcome to the Gas Chamber

Remember when you could inhale a large pepperoni pizza and wash it down with a six-pack, then fall asleep watching SportsCenter without consequence?

Yeah… well buddy, I hate to break it to you, but those days are over.

Now, one slice of pizza and your gut swells up like a beach ball. You’re burping, bloated, and trying to figure out if you’re dying or just digesting.

Congratulations — you’ve reached the age where your gut health decides to stage a midlife crisis.

What the Heck Happened to Your Stomach?

After 50, your digestive system basically goes on strike.

Here’s what’s really going on:

  • You make less stomach acid. That means food doesn’t break down as well, so it just sits there — fermenting like leftover beer in the sun.
  • Your gut bacteria change. Some good ones retire early, and the bad ones set up house and start throwing parties.
  • You’re probably less hydrated. (Coffee and beer don’t count. Sorry.)
  • You’re moving less. And when you sit more, your digestion slows to a crawl.

So no, you’re not broken — you’re just overdue for a gut tune-up.

Signs Your Gut Is Trying to Tell You Something

If your body could text you, it’d probably say:

“Hey man, maybe stop eating like you’re still in college.”

Here are some red flags that could indicate something is wrong with your gut:

  • You feel bloated after every meal.
  • You get gas that could (and possibly, actually does) clear a room.
  • You’re either constipated or sprinting to the bathroom.
  • You feel tired all the time.
  • Random food sensitivities popping up out of nowhere.

It’s not just “getting older.” It’s your gut waving a white flag.

The Pizza Problem (And Everything Like It)

Pizza, while tasty and indulgent, is the perfect storm for the aging male digestive system:

  • Cheese: high fat + low lactase enzyme = lactose chaos.
  • Dough: refined carbs feed the wrong gut bacteria.
  • Sauce: acidic and often full of sugar.
  • Pepperoni: delicious, but salty and processed — your mouth likes it, but your gut hates it.

Combine all that with a beer or two and zero movement afterward, and boom — you’re miserable by bedtime.

Fixing Your Gut Without Becoming “That Guy”

You don’t have to go full kale-smoothie yogi to feel better.

You just need a few simple tweaks.

Here’s the Old, Fat, and Stupid approach to gut health:

1. Feed the Good Guys

Your gut is home to trillions of bacteria — some keep you healthy, others make you miserable.

Good bacteria love:

  • Fiber (from fruits, veggies, beans, and whole grains)
  • Fermented foods like yogurt, sauerkraut, kimchi, and kefir
  • Water (seriously, drink it)

Try to eat real food 80% of the time. The other 20%? That’s your pizza-and-beer allowance.

2. Give the Bad Guys Less Ammo

Cut back on the stuff that feeds the wrong bacteria:

  • Processed junk
  • Too much sugar
  • Artificial sweeteners
  • Alcohol (sorry, but that third IPA is not a probiotic)

You don’t have to be a saint — just make the bad stuff the exception, not the diet plan.

3. Move After You Eat

You don’t need to run marathons. Just walk.

A 10-minute walk after a meal helps digestion, lowers blood sugar, and prevents that heavy “I swallowed a bowling ball” feeling.

It’s one of the simplest, most underrated gut health hacks there is.

4. Sleep Like a Human, Not a Bat

Poor sleep messes up gut bacteria balance, which then messes up your mood, energy, and metabolism.

Aim for 7 hours of sleep (I try for 8), keep your phone out of bed, and maybe stop drinking caffeine after 2 p.m. (I usually have something caffeinated at lunchtime and then, that’s it for the day. That seems to work fine for me but everyone’s different.).

Your gut will thank you.

5. Pay Attention to What Comes Out

You’re not going there are you John?

Yeah, we’re going there.

Your poop tells the truth about your gut.

If it’s weird, hard, loose, or inconsistent — something’s off.

You don’t have to be obsessive, but if your bathroom life has gone sideways for weeks, it’s worth a chat with your doctor. Sometimes bloating or irregularity can signal food intolerances, inflammation, or other issues that are fixable.

A Few “Old Guy” Gut Myths (Busted)

Myth: “Gas just means I’m getting old.”

Reality: No — it means your digestion needs attention.

Myth: “Fiber supplements are enough.”

Reality: Fiber helps, but whole foods are better — they feed good bacteria naturally.

Myth: “I’ll just take probiotics.”

Reality: Probiotics can help, but they’re not magic. Without good diet habits, they’re like sprinkling grass seed on a parking lot.

The Bottom Line

Hey, I’m no doctor. What I’ve outlined above are things that should be common sense: eat good foods versus bad foods; drink lots of water; exercise; and get enough sleep. But if something genuinely isn’t right with your gut — or anything else for that matter — I recommend you seek prompt, professional medical attention.

Your gut isn’t out to get you — it’s just asking for a little respect.

If you treat it right, you’ll have more energy, better moods, and less midsection drama after every meal.

So next time you’re tempted to blame the pizza for your bloat, remember — it’s not the pizza.

It’s your gut waving a flag that says, “Feed me like a grown-up.”

Eat smarter. Move more. Hydrate.

Then go enjoy that slice — guilt-free and gas-free.

You’ve got this, old man!

Traveling Like a Grandpa Pro: Tips for Surviving Airports Without Losing Your Mind (or Your Reading Glasses)

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Traveling Like a Grandpa Pro: Tips for Surviving Airports Without Losing Your Mind (or Your Reading Glasses)

Air Travel After 50: A Full-Contact Sport

Let’s be honest — air travel isn’t what it used to be.

You used to stroll into the airport like Frank Sinatra with a ticket and a smile. Who can forget all those travel insurance kiosks everywhere giving you that last-minute opportunity to sign up for coverage in case your flight didn’t pan out as intended?

Now it’s a marathon of monitors, scanners, lines, and “remove your belt” moments that feel like public humiliation.

But good news: with a little strategy (and a sense of humor), you can travel like a grandpa pro — calm, collected, and only slightly irritated.

Here’s how to survive the airport circus without losing your mind, your glasses, or your dignity.

Step One: Pack Like You’ve Been Around the Block (Because You Have)

If you’re still stuffing random items into a suitcase 20 minutes before your flight, it’s time to evolve and get with the program dude.

You’ve earned the right to travel smarter.

Pro Tips for Grown Men Who Hate Packing:

  • Get a lightweight roller bag. You’re not proving masculinity by lugging a 50-pound duffel. Every time I travel, I find myself remembering what life was like before someone had the genius idea to put wheels on the bottom of a suitcase. Wasn’t that the worst when you had to lug your heavy suitcases around without wheels?
  • Use packing cubes. They look ridiculous, but nobody will see them except you and they’ll change your life. I love those things. I use one for socks, one for underwear, etc. When I get to my hotel, or wherever I’m staying, I’ll dump them out into the drawers and then use the same cubes to pack my dirty laundry for my trip home. Works great.
  • Pre-pack your toiletries. Just keep a travel kit ready to go — you’re too old to forget toothpaste. And maybe it’s time to consider downsizing to a smaller shaving kit instead of that big old leather honker you got as a high school graduation present. While you’re at it, dump that thing out on the counter and see how much of the stuff in there is necessary versus being junk you have collected during your travels. I’m betting most of the contents never ever see any action. Leave that unnecessary stuff at home!
  • Label your stuff. Because the guy next to you in security probably has the same black Samsonite bag. I’m continually amazed at the number of people I see with luggage in airports with no nametags or other identifying information or markings. Ever have someone pick up your bag by mistake? I sure have. Guy picked it up and kept going and I had to chase him down. Making sure your luggage stands out and has your name on a nametag or luggage wrap is always a good idea.

Bonus tip: bring a second pair of reading glasses. You will lose the first pair somewhere between Gate C7 and the Starbucks line.

Dress for Comfort (But Not Like You’ve Given Up on Life)

Airport style is a delicate balance.

You don’t need to look like a runway model, but you also shouldn’t look like you wandered in from a recliner nap at the nursing home.

Here’s the winning formula:

  • Stretch jeans or travel pants (with pockets that zip). Joggers are all the rage these days. I find them to be super comfortable, come in varying weights depending on the weather, and the right ones can be very fashionable and “in”. I regularly get compliments on mine, so there’s that.
  • Breathable sneakers — easy on, easy off. Now look — this does not include those “fancy” sneakers you may own with the Velcro straps instead of laces. Come on man… those dudes need to be retired — before you head to the airport.
  • A decent-looking jacket or pullover — because planes are either 400 degrees or sub-Arctic.

Avoid: flip-flops, cargo shorts from 1995, and any shirt with a “funny” slogan about beer or fishing. You’re aiming for “seasoned traveler,” not “lost uncle on vacation.” That said, you’ll find a great selection of comfortable, fun shirts that are perfect for travel at our store. Click here to see them now.

TSA: The Modern-Day Gauntlet

Security is where men over 50 truly shine — or snap.

The trick is preparation:

  • Empty your pockets before you get in line. Every time. You’re not in a rush; you’re in a system.
  • Slip-on shoes = happiness. Nobody wants to see you untying boots while 200 people sigh behind you. These days, there are so many brands of nice looking slip on shoes. Go get you some if you don’t already have any and avoid joining the ranks of all the sock-feeted old men walking around aimlessly at the TSA exit, shoes in hand, looking for a place to sit down to put them back on.
  • Keep your laptop and liquids handy. (Yes, you still have to take any liquids out, no matter how many times you’ve flown.)
  • Smile and be polite. TSA agents deal with chaos all day — you’ll get through faster if you’re the calm guy. Do you know what they want most? They want you to listen to what they say and do what they tell you to do in a quick, courteous manner — and then keep moving and get out of there so the next traveler can go through.

Airport Zen: Finding Calm in the Chaos

You’ve made it through security. Now what?

The modern airport is designed to test your patience — bright lights, loud announcements, $8 bottles of water.

Here’s how to stay sane:

  • Find your gate, then walk away. Get your steps in before you sit for five hours. Want to get something to eat before your next flight? Find your departure gate first. Then head out to explore. You can thank me later.
  • Bring your own snacks. Nobody needs to pay $12 for a sad sandwich. I have two all-time favorite travel snacks: those “nabs”, or peanut-butter cracker things that come 6 to a package, and Payday candy bars. Why? Because both of these are small, filling, sturdy (not easily crushed) and have gotten me through lots of times when other food wasn’t an option. And the best reason for both of these? Because neither of these items will melt. Try that with a Snickers bar when you’re somewhere hot and see how that works out for you.
  • Noise-canceling headphones = sanity. You’ll thank yourself when the gate agent starts shouting about “zone boarding.” I love my headphones and use them every time I fly. Many flights these days even allow you to connect them via Bluetooth to their in-flight entertainment systems so you can watch movies using them.
  • Download entertainment. Because the in-flight movie is probably something with explosions you’ve already seen. Most paid movie services these days allow their subscribers to download movies at home on their portable devices to watch when Wi-Fi isn’t available. I also have a Spotify account and download playlists to listen to in-flight while reading.

Bonus tip: buy water after security. Bring it before security, and you’re going to have to toss it. But you already knew that. Hydration helps fight jet lag, and it gives you something to sip while judging other travelers. Alternatively, get yourself a water bottle. So many travelers do that these days, and you can usually find water fountains all over the airport.

Boarding Like a Boss

You’ve seen the chaos. People crowding the gate, standing in line 20 minutes early like it’s a Black Friday sale.

Here’s the truth: assuming you’re not on Southwest Airlines, you already have an assigned seat. You’re not missing out on anything.

Sit down, relax, and board last. Your knees and sanity will thank you.

And when it’s your turn, move with purpose.

Find your seat, store your bag, and resist the urge to complain about legroom — because everyone else already is.

In-Flight Survival: The Grandpa Way

Flying used to be classy. Growing up, my mother made me wear a suit when we had the rare opportunity to fly on an airplane. Boy, have times changed. These days, it’s not unusual to see women in airports wearing house slippers and pajamas.

Nowadays, it’s survival.

Here’s how to make it work:

  • Once seated, claim your space early. Elbows out just enough to suggest confidence, not combat.
  • Stretch often. Stand, move, do a discreet calf raise. You’re preventing blood clots, not showing off.
  • Headphones are magic. They signal “do not disturb” to chatty seatmates. That benefit alone makes them well worth the price.
  • Don’t drink too much. Airplane bathrooms are not designed for older knees or shoulders.

And yes — bring your own reading glasses. Maybe two pairs. Just trust me on that one.

When You Land: Patience, Grasshopper

Everyone rushes off the plane like the last chopper out of Saigon.

But you? You’re older, wiser, and probably still stuck in row 27.

Why don’t people these days understand plane deboarding etiquette? It’s really simple — you get out of your seat and step into the aisle when it’s your turn. When is it your turn? When the folks in front of you have just stepped into the aisle. Good grief, I get frustrated with all the people in rows behind you who push past everyone in their rush to go stand in line on the airbridge to wait for their gate-checked baggage.

Take your time.

Let the chaos clear.

Stretch, breathe, smile — you made it.

Hit the restroom. Wash your hands. Smile at yourself in the mirror. Make sure you don’t have food stuck between your teeth. Then calmly stroll to baggage claim like the world’s most experienced man.

You’ve earned that slow, confident walk.

Final Thoughts

Traveling doesn’t have to be miserable — even for older men who remember when airplanes had ashtrays and legroom and fancy little meals.

It’s all about attitude, preparation, and a willingness to laugh when things go sideways.

So pack light, move slow, stay hydrated, and always — always — know where your glasses are.

Because you’re not just traveling.

You’re traveling like a grandpa pro.

Get out there. You’ve got this, old man!

The Real Secret to Living Longer: Don’t Act Your Age

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The Real Secret to Living Longer: Don’t Act Your Age

Stop Acting Old — It’s Bad for You

You know the old saying, “You’re as young as you think you are.” Here’s a radical thought: maybe getting old isn’t what’s making you feel old.

It might be the acting old part — the slowing down, the sitting out, the “nah, I’m too old for that” stuff — that’s actually speeding up the aging process.

Because let’s be honest — half the battle after 50 is convincing yourself you’re still in the game. That’s totally, the way it is — right? And the truth is, you are (still in the game). Science backs it up: your mindset about aging can literally add years to your life.

So if you want to live longer, laugh louder, and not be that guy who complains about “kids these days” — maybe it’s time to stop acting your age.

The Science (Yeah, There’s Actually Science Behind This)

Researchers at Yale found that people with positive attitudes toward aging live about 7.5 years longer than those who dread it. Can you believe that? I sure can.

Seven and a half years — that’s a lot of bonus time to do cool stuff, like travel, spend time with your grandkids, fish, or finally fix that garage project from 1998.

It’s not magic; it’s biology.

When you think you’re “done,” your body believes you.

When you act engaged, curious, and optimistic, your brain pumps out better chemicals — dopamine, serotonin, and motivation itself.

In other words: if you keep showing up for life, your body keeps showing up for you.

The “Don’t Act Your Age” Lifestyle — Broken Down

This isn’t about pretending to be 25 again. Nobody needs to see you in skinny jeans or at a rave. And for sure, leave that leisure suit in the closet, buddy.

It’s about being the best version of your current self — engaged, curious, and fully alive.

Here’s how to do it.

Move Like You Still Mean It

You don’t have to run marathons. Just move.

Walk. Stretch. Do squats while the coffee brews.

Dance badly at weddings (one of my favorite things to do).

Climb stairs instead of complaining about them.

The goal isn’t fitness perfection — it’s motion. Motion keeps your muscles, joints, and brain working.

Think of it this way: rust happens faster on parked cars.

Stay Curious (Even If It’s About Weird Stuff)

Boredom is the real killer.

The brain loves novelty — new experiences, new skills, new challenges.

So learn something ridiculous: guitar, pickleball, salsa dancing, woodworking, photography, magic tricks, whatever.

Curiosity keeps your neurons firing and your outlook fresh.

Plus, it gives you new stories to tell — because nobody wants to hear another rerun of your high school football glory days.

Hang Out with People Who Make You Laugh

Loneliness shortens life expectancy as much as smoking 15 cigarettes a day. (Yes, really.)

You don’t need a massive social circle — just good people who make you laugh, challenge your thinking, and remind you that you’re still part of the world.

Call your buddies. Reconnect with that old friend. Join a club, a golf league, a volunteer group, get involved at church, work at your local poling place for elections — anything that gets you off your couch and into life.

Do Stupid, Fun Things (Responsibly, Of Course)

One of the fastest ways to feel young again is to do something slightly ridiculous.

Take a road trip with no GPS.

Try karaoke.

Go skinny-dipping (preferably in your own pool, not the neighbor’s).

Buy a skateboard and see what happens. You. Not me. After a torn rotator cuff from a pair of inline skates and a momentary lapse in judgement, I’m out on anything like that with wheels. But you get the point – do something atypical and have fun.

Acting younger doesn’t mean being immature — it means being alive, spontaneous, and willing to say “why not?” once in a while.

Dress Like You Care (But Not Like You’re 20)

Here’s a fun experiment: wear something that actually fits and isn’t from the Clinton administration.

When you look good, you feel good.

When you feel good, you act confident.

And confidence is the closest thing to a fountain of youth you’ll ever find.

You don’t have to chase trends — just upgrade. Better jeans, newer shoes, maybe a shirt without a logo from your company picnic in 1994.

Keep Your Mind Open (Especially to New Generations)

Don’t become that guy who starts every sentence with “Back in my day…”

Talk to younger people. Listen to their music. Learn their slang (even if you use it wrong).

You’ll either feel inspired or hilariously out of touch — both outcomes are good for the soul.

Find Your “Why”

Purpose adds years to your life.

It doesn’t have to be saving whales or climbing mountains.

It might be mentoring someone, helping your grandkids, or building that side hustle you always dreamed of. (You’re reading my “Why” right now.)

Having something to get up for — something that matters — keeps you anchored and motivated.

The Payoff: Living, Not Just Lasting

Living longer isn’t just about how many years you get — it’s about how alive you are during them.

The guys who age the best aren’t the ones with perfect diets or abs. (Thank goodness, because I’m I’d be in trouble.) They’re the ones still laughing, still learning, still doing.

So go ahead — break a little rule, try something new, take that trip, wear the loud shirt, and keep acting like life’s still worth chasing.

Because it is.

Get out there and live, you old geezer!

The Perfect Bedtime Routine for Men Who Hate Routines

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The Perfect Bedtime Routine for Men Who Hate Routines

You’re Not 25 Anymore, Cowboy

Remember when you could drink a pot of coffee or a two-liter bottle of Diet Coke at 9 p.m., watch Letterman, and still bounce out of bed for work the next morning? Yeah… those days are gone Buckaroo. Now, one wrong pillow angle and you’re crippled until Thursday.

But here’s the deal: sleep isn’t just “rest.” Once you hit your 50s, it’s more like a nightly tune-up. Without it, your body starts sending passive-aggressive messages in the form of brain fog, joint pain, and mysterious noises when you stand up.

This isn’t about becoming some monk with a lavender-scented diffuser. It’s about finding a bedtime rhythm that helps you sleep better — even if you hate routines, rules, and being told what to do.

So, here’s the “anti-routine” bedtime plan — made for old guys like you and me, who just want to wake up feeling like less of a dumpster fire in the morning.

Why Sleep Gets Weird After 50

Here’s the short version: your body’s doing its best, but it’s not what it used to be.

  • You make less melatonin, so it’s harder to fall asleep.
  • You wake up more often (usually to pee).
  • Your brain still thinks 11 p.m. is a great time to replay that argument from 2014.
  • And your joints? They now creak in Dolby Surround Sound.

Basically, your brain’s a toddler and your bladder’s a traitor. But the fix isn’t fancy — it’s consistency.

If you can give your body some simple cues that say, “Hey, big guy, it’s bedtime,” you’ll sleep deeper, wake up clearer, and maybe even stop falling asleep in your recliner halfway through SportsCenter.

Routines Without Feeling Routine

Let’s get one thing straight: I hate routines too.

They feel like chores disguised as self-care.

But consistency doesn’t have to mean rigidity. Think of it like your golf swing — same rhythm every time, but you still get to improvise.

What matters most is sending your brain the same signals every night: Hey dude – we’re done here, let’s power down.

The Old, Fat, and Stupid “Anti-Routine” Bedtime Plan

A few simple steps. No apps. No essential oils. No judgment.

Step 1: Quit the Late-Night Heroics

You’re not saving the world by sending one more email or watching one more inning.

Set a “shutdown time” an hour before bed. Turn off the screens (or at least stop doomscrolling). Your phone will survive the night without you.

Do something low-stress instead: talk to your spouse, scratch the dog, or just sit in peace and listen to the quiet.

Step 2: Do the Thing You Always Forget (Yes, Your Teeth)

Hygiene is an underrated sleep cue. Brush your teeth. Wash your face. Maybe slap on some “anti-crackle cream” (a.k.a. lotion). Note: That last one – the cream or lotion – that’s for you – not me. I hate that stuff and don’t like even touch it. I just don’t like how if feels. But lots of guys do and maybe you’ll find it helpful.

When you smell clean and your face isn’t greasy or sticky, your body takes the hint: oh, this guy’s getting serious about sleep.

Step 3: Ease Into Neutral

You can’t go from full throttle to full sleep.

Dim the lights. Turn off the heavy TV shows and talk (or just think) about something light — no politics, no finances, no “what are we doing with the garage” conversations.

If you want a small nightcap, make it herbal tea or a glass of water. Alcohol might make you sleepy, but it messes with your deep sleep later. Or, you might like it just enough to have a second drink while the minutes and hours slip away, further delaying your getting into bed. Save the bourbon for golf stories.

Step 4: Relax Without Trying Too Hard

You don’t need to meditate — just breathe, man.

Try this: sit still, close your eyes, and take a few slow breaths. If you start thinking about tomorrow’s to-do list, picture something peaceful instead — like a beach, or your favorite recliner after mowing the lawn.

If you want background noise, pick a calm podcast or soft music.

And for the love of all that’s holy, avoid true crime. If you’re listening to serial killers at bedtime, that’s on you.

Step 5: Treat Your Bed Like a Temple (or at Least a Place That’s Not a Laptop Desk)

Your bed should be for two things: sleep and… well, you know, the other thing. But definitely not for work.

No phones. No iPads. No work documents.

Keep the room cool, dark, and comfortable. For me, cool is key. I have a digital thermostat that’s programmed to drop the temperature pretty significantly after my designated bedtime.

Upgrade your pillows if they’ve gone flat (in the pillow world, I think they call that “broken”) — your neck deserves better than the $9.99 special from 2004.

Step 6: Handle the 2 A.M. Problem

It happens. You wake up. You pee (hopefully with better aim than mine is some nights). You wonder if you’ve ruined everything by getting up and going to the bathroom. “Am I now completely awake?” you ask yourself?

Don’t panic. Don’t check your phone. Don’t turn on the light.

Just get back in bed and relax.

If your brain starts yapping, try counting breaths, or think of three things you’re grateful for — like indoor plumbing, ibuprofen, and the fact that you don’t have to set an alarm anymore.

Many years ago, I read an article that suggested it is sometimes helpful to count backwards slowly from 100. I do this occasionally and for me at least, it seems to help.

Step 7: The Morning Bonus Round

Good sleep starts in the morning.

Get sunlight on your face as soon as possible.

Move your body — even just a short walk can be huge.

And maybe hold off on the coffee until you’ve been awake for 30 minutes (I know, blasphemy — but it works).

If your morning starts with doomscrolling and caffeine strong enough to strip paint, you’re setting yourself up to crash by noon.

Progress, Not Perfection

Here’s the truth: sleep after 50 will never be perfect. But it can be better.

You don’t need eight uninterrupted hours or a high-dollar smart mattress. You just need habits that tell your body when to rest and your brain when to shut up.

If you can fall asleep before midnight and don’t need a nap by lunch, congratulations — you’re basically a sleep ninja.

Try the “anti-routine” tonight. Worst case, you’ll at least stop falling asleep in your recliner with ESPN still on.

Bonus Tip:

If your snoring could rattle the windows, or you’re still exhausted no matter how much you sleep, get checked for sleep apnea. A CPAP might not be sexy, but neither is dozing off at traffic lights. I broke down and jumped on the CPAP bus a bunch of years ago and, other than the obvious dislike I have for wearing a contraption on my head, find it to be a huge help to my nightly sleep and my overall wellbeing.

You can do this, old man. Go get ’em.

Dating Over 50: It May Feel Weird, but You’ve Got This

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Dating Over 50: It May Feel Weird, but You’ve Got This

Let’s be honest: dating over 50 can feel pretty weird. It’s not like riding a bike—you don’t just hop back on after a few decades and pedal off into the sunset. The world has changed. People swipe more than they talk, and phrases like “ghosting,” “breadcrumbing,” and “situationships” sound like things you’d hear at a bakery rather than in your love life.

But here’s the good news: you’ve got this. Whether you’re divorced, widowed, or have never married, dating later in life can actually be a lot more fun, freeing, and meaningful than it was in your twenties.

Let’s break it down.

1. First, Acknowledge the Weirdness

It’s okay to admit that dating feels foreign. Back in the day, you met people at church, at work, through friends, or maybe at a bar after a hard day on the job. Now? You meet them through an app where everyone looks like they’re trying out for a toothpaste commercial.

Tip: Don’t try to pretend you’re 25 again. Be real. Be you. You’ve lived life, you’ve earned some scars, and you bring real experiences to the table. That’s not a drawback—it’s your advantage.

Pro move: When you’re honest about who you are and where you are in life, you filter out people who aren’t a good fit. That’s a huge time-saver.

2. Get Comfortable with Modern Tools (Yep, That Means Apps)

Online dating can feel like stepping into a strange new world. But for men over 50, it’s also one of the most effective ways to meet new people—especially if you’re not into bar hopping anymore.

A few apps worth exploring:

  • OurTime: Specifically designed for singles over 50.
  • Match: A classic platform that tends to attract serious daters.
  • Bumble: Women make the first move, which can take some pressure off.
  • Facebook Dating: Surprisingly solid, especially if you’re already using the platform.

Pro move: Take the time to create a profile that sounds like you. Skip the bathroom selfies and invest in a couple of nice, natural photos. Humor goes a long way here—lean into your personality. And for Pete’s sake – if you’re gonna take a picture of yourself using the full length mirror in your bedroom, make your bed and pick up all your clothes off the floor!

3. Embrace Your Confidence (Even If It’s Rusty)

Dating at this stage of life isn’t about chasing someone to “complete” you—it’s about finding someone who complements your already full life. That’s a big shift from your younger years.

You’ve raised kids, worked hard, made mistakes, learned lessons, and figured out who you are. That kind of self-awareness is incredibly attractive.

Tip: Confidence doesn’t mean pretending to be perfect. It means owning your story. If you’re a grandpa who still likes to travel, or you’ve recently taken up woodworking, or you love dad jokes—lead with that.

4. Set Realistic Expectations (This Isn’t a Rom-Com)

Here’s the truth: not every date will lead to sparks flying. Some will be awkward. Some might end with you saying, “Well… that was something.” And that’s okay.

Dating over 50 isn’t about finding everyone—it’s about finding someone right for you. The journey itself can be rewarding if you approach it with curiosity instead of pressure.

Pro move: Think of dating less like a high-stakes audition and more like two adults sharing a conversation. Take the pressure off yourself (and them).

5. Keep Your Sense of Humor (It’s Your Superpower)

Things will go sideways sometimes. You’ll meet people who don’t look like their photos. You’ll get messages that make you scratch your head. And you might even accidentally swipe left on someone amazing.

Laugh about it. Roll with it. Your ability to stay lighthearted and genuine is one of your biggest assets. Remember: you’re not auditioning for “The Bachelor: AARP Edition.” You’re just living your life and opening the door to new possibilities.

6. Don’t Lose Sight of Your Worth

If you’ve been out of the dating game for a while, rejection can sting. But here’s the thing: rejection isn’t a reflection of your value—it’s just part of the process. Everyone experiences it.

Stay grounded in who you are. You bring life experience, stability, and character to the table—qualities that only grow stronger with age.

Final Thoughts

Dating over 50 is, without a doubt, a little weird. But weird doesn’t mean bad. In fact, it can be one of the most rewarding adventures you’ll embark on if you approach it with honesty, humor, and confidence.

So, dust off your charm, upload that photo where you’re genuinely smiling (not squinting into the sun), and take a step forward.

You’ve got this. Go get ’em.

How to Be a Legendary Grandpa (Without Becoming a Full-Time Babysitter)

John Chesney
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How to Be a Legendary Grandpa (Without Becoming a Full-Time Babysitter)

Being a grandpa is awesome — but you don’t have to become a full-time babysitter to be legendary. Here are smart, funny, and meaningful ways to connect with your grandkids without losing your freedom.

Let’s be honest: being a grandpa is one of the greatest perks of getting older. For me, it’s my favorite thing! I’ve got two strapping grandsons and they both make me feel so blessed. You get the joy, the hugs, the chance to spoil them a little (okay, maybe a lot)… and then you get to hand them back to their parents (and then go sit in your recliner to recover).

But somewhere between “Sure, I’ll watch them for an hour” and “Can you keep them overnight for the third time this week?”… some grandpas accidentally become unpaid, full-time babysitters.

Being a legendary grandpa doesn’t mean saying yes to everything. It means showing up in memorable, meaningful ways — on your terms. Here’s how to build a bond your grandkids will never forget, without becoming the free childcare department.

1. Embrace Your “Grandpa Superpower”

Every grandpa has a thing — whether it’s woodworking, telling epic stories, cooking pancakes shaped like dinosaurs, or building model airplanes. Share that with your grandkids.

They’ll remember your thing for life. You don’t have to entertain them with endless activities; just bring them into your world. Be the grandpa with a signature superpower.

Now all the time I hear things from my friends like, “John, you’re good with that stuff. I’m not. I don’t have any superpowers”. I’m afraid I’m gonna have to call BS on that one. Don’t think you have a superpower? If that’s the case, you’re just not thinking hard enough. I’ll bet, if you’d give it some thought, and if you’d throw out the urge to shoot holes in everything you do well, you could come up with a respectable list of things that make you special…

Things that you enjoy doing and that you do pretty doggone well (I’m betting you do them better than most folks)…

Things that are your “superpower” that you need to share with those grandkids of yours. Think about it. The things that make you – you – are the special things you want to share with your grandkids.

2. Set Gentle (But Clear) Boundaries

It’s easy to slip into “sure, I’ll help” mode… until your calendar looks like a daycare rotation. Legendary grandpas set boundaries early and kindly.

Let your kids know when you’re truly available — and when you’re not. Saying no doesn’t make you a bad grandpa. It makes you a rested, happy one – a grandpa who’s ready to bring it on when it’s time to show up as a legendary grandparent.

3. Be Present, Not Perfect

Kids don’t need perfection; they need your attention. Put the phone away. Turn off the big game on the television. Look them in the eyes. Ask questions. Listen to their long, winding stories about Minecraft or a cartoon you’ve never heard of.

You don’t have to be up-to-date on every trend to be cool. You just have to show up and tune in.

4. Create Traditions They’ll Brag About

Want to be remembered forever? Create a quirky, repeatable tradition.

  • Ice cream after school every Friday. (My dad took me to get doughnuts every Saturday – until he died from cancer. That’s one of my favorite memories of my dad. Guess what? Both of my kids went with me to get doughnuts every Saturday when they were growing up. And you know what? My grandsons are going to get the same treatment when they’re old enough for that.)
  • A backyard “campout” twice a year. Or, a “campout” in your den. Something out of the ordinary that they’ll never forget.
  • Secret handshake, special nickname, or a “grandpa-only” game. None of my grandparents lived close by when I was growing up, but there was this great old guy next door who always called me “Cowboy”. Man… I looked forward to seeing him just to hear him call me that. It made me feel so special.

Traditions make kids feel safe, special, and connected. And the best part? They don’t require daily babysitting shifts.

5. Share Your Stories (Even the Embarrassing Ones)

You’ve got decades of wisdom, adventures, and probably a few “don’t tell Grandma” stories tucked away. Share them.

Grandkids love to hear about what the world was like “back then.” It’s your chance to pass down legacy, lessons, and laughter in a way no one else can.

I’m a big believer in repetition too. I figure that if you tell them the same story enough times, it’ll sink in and they’ll remember it for the rest of their lives.

6. Play the Long Game

Being a legendary grandpa isn’t about volume — it’s about quality. It’s okay to not be available every time. What matters is that when you are with them, you make it count.

As they grow, you’ll be the steady, fun, wise presence they remember — not the exhausted babysitter who was always half-asleep on the couch. It’s not that hard to be legendary to your grandkids. Just show up – focused and ready to deliver your best to them.

Final Thought: Legendary Grandpa Status = Quality + Personality

Being a grandpa is one of life’s great privileges. You don’t have to be a full-time babysitter to be unforgettable. You just need to bring your authentic self, set clear boundaries, and sprinkle in a few traditions, laughs, and stories.

Start with one “grandpa superpower” this week, and watch your legendary status grow.

Now go get ‘em grandpa!

10 Hobbies That Are Surprisingly Fun (and Don’t Require Kneeling!)

John Chesney
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10 Hobbies That Are Surprisingly Fun (and Don’t Require Kneeling!)

Let’s be honest: after you hit 50, if you’re like me, hobbies that require squatting, kneeling, or crawling under things don’t have the same appeal they once had. Your knees have unionized, your back occasionally files complaints, and you’re less interested in anything that starts with “just get down on the floor.”

But here’s the good news: fun doesn’t have to end when the cartilage does. There are plenty of great hobbies out there for older men that keep you active, engaged, and entertained — without requiring you to crawl, crouch, or do the limbo. Which is good, because I’m not much for crawling, crouching, or seeing how low I can go.

Whether you’re looking to make new friends, keep your brain sharp, or simply have something that’s yours (that isn’t the TV remote – that’ll always be yours, so let’s put it down occasionally), here are 10 surprisingly fun hobbies for men over 50 to try now.

1. Pickleball

You’ve been hearing about it everywhere. Why not give it a try? You might just like it. Pickleball combines the best parts of tennis and ping-pong without the full-court sprints. It’s easy on the knees, easy to learn, and perfect for a little friendly competition. Plus, saying “pickleball” out loud will never stop being fun.

2. Birdwatching

Before you roll your eyes, hear me out: birdwatching is way more interesting than it sounds. It gets you outdoors, keeps your mind alert, and gives you an excuse to stand around in nature looking wise. No kneeling required, and you’ll be amazed at how addictive it becomes. So break out those old binoculars from that shoebox on the top shelf of your closet, and get out there.

3. Dust Off That Guitar (or Learn to Play a New Instrument)

That guitar in your closet deserves a second act. Playing music lights up your brain, impresses your grandkids, and gives you a hobby you can enjoy sitting down with a cup of coffee (or something stronger). Bonus: learning something new is great for cognitive health. I took five years of guitar lessons back when I was a teenager, spending countless hours attempting to play along with my KISS records. And while I haven’t resumed playing yet, it’s high on my to-do list.

4. Gardening… From the Waist Up

Gardening doesn’t have to mean crawling around like you’re auditioning for Yard Work Ninja Warrior. Container gardening, raised beds, and vertical gardens let you enjoy the hobby without the chiropractor bills. I got a nice one on sale from Sam’s Club for under a hundred bucks and I just love that things. Fresh herbs on the patio? Yes, please.

5. Painting or Drawing

You don’t need to be Picasso. Painting and drawing are relaxing, creative outlets that anyone can try. Whether you join a class or doodle at the kitchen table, this is low-impact fun that can surprise you with how rewarding it feels. And talk about low start-up cost: some blank paper and a pen or pencil and you’re off to the races!

6. Puzzles and Brain Games

Crosswords, Sudoku, jigsaw puzzles — these classics aren’t just time-killers. They boost memory, focus, and brain health while letting you relax in your favorite chair. Perfect for quiet mornings or lazy afternoons. After climbing into bed in the evening, the last thing I do before I turn off the lights is play one game of Sudoku on my phone. That usually takes me 5-10 minutes and for me, is a perfect wind-down before I go to sleep.

7. Photography

With today’s smartphones, you don’t need fancy gear to take incredible photos. Photography encourages you to explore, notice details, and see the world with fresh eyes. You can find tons of videos on YouTube which will show you how to get a little more serious about using your phone to take good pictures. This is something I enjoy, and I’ve been amazed at how, armed with a little knowledge, you can really turn out some good looking photos. And unless you’re going for that dramatic worm’s-eye angle, kneeling is totally optional.

8. Volunteering

Volunteering isn’t just “doing good” — it can become a deeply meaningful hobby. Whether you mentor teens, read to kids, or help at a local food pantry, giving your time connects you to others and adds purpose to your days.I’m big on volunteering and write on that topic regularly. What a great way to meet people, have a sense of purpose, and do good things for others – and for yourself. A true win-win.

9. Writing Your Stories

You’ve got decades of experiences, lessons, and funny stories rattling around in your head. Capture them through journaling, blogging, or even writing your memoir. It’s a creative outlet, a legacy project, and something future generations will cherish. I’m definitely a fan, which is where the motivation to start Old, Fat, and Stupid came from.

10. Exploring Local History

Every town has hidden stories. Join a historical society, take walking tours, or photograph old landmarks. It’s like being Indiana Jones — minus the sprinting, snakes, and collapsing temples. I will bet you that if you look around, you’ll find tons of places to explore within an hour or so’s drive of where you live. Get out there dude and explore!

Final Thoughts: Fun Doesn’t Retire — Neither Should You

You don’t need to climb mountains (or ladders) to have a good time. Picking up a new hobby in your 50s, 60s, 70s, or beyond isn’t about “keeping busy” — it’s about staying curious, connected, and enjoying the ride.

Try one of these hobbies this week and see where it leads. Or better yet — share your favorite no-kneeling-required pastime in the comments below.

See you out there.

Packing Smarter, Not Harder: What to Bring (and What to Leave at Home) After 50

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Packing Smarter, Not Harder: What to Bring (and What to Leave at Home) After 50

I know a guy who seems like he could take the same brown paper bag you’d have used for your lunch in high school, and he can pack a week’s worth of essentials in there. Not me… for most of my life, I’ve felt the need to bring along most everything I own.

I’ll admit it: I used to be a chronic overpacker. If the suitcase zipped (barely), I considered it a win. But somewhere around the age of 50, I realized that hauling 65 pounds of “just in case” gear through an airport isn’t just inconvenient (and over most airlines’ individual bag weight limits) — it’s a threat to my lower back.

So, I’ve been learning the art of packing smarter. Not harder. Here’s what I’ve figured out along the way:

1. Shoes: Fewer, Better

In my 30s, I’d pack a pair for every occasion. Hiking boots, dress shoes, sneakers, sandals. Now? Two pairs, max. One for walking (because my knees don’t forgive me anymore) and one for “looking halfway decent at dinner.” Anything more is just dead weight.

What to leave at home: Those old cowboy boots you swear you’ll wear again. You won’t.

2. The Magic of Neutral Colors

Turns out, if your shirts and pants all play nicely together, you don’t need as many outfits. Black, navy, gray — not exciting, but versatile. Add one “fun” shirt if you want to look festive in photos.

What to leave at home: That Hawaiian shirt from 1997. It doesn’t scream “vacation.” It screams “yard sale.”

3. Tech Without the Tangle

Bring the essentials: phone, charger, maybe a tablet or Kindle. Bonus points if you spring for one of those compact universal adapters. Nothing says “rookie traveler” like begging for the right plug in a Paris hotel lobby.

What to leave at home: The laptop you swear you’ll “get some work done” on. You probably won’t. And if you do, it defeats the whole point of the trip. (But, with that said, I can take just my iPad with a Magic Keyboard for typing and get virtually everything done that I might need to get done – without the headache of lugging an actual laptop along with me.)

4. Meds, Creams, and Band-Aids

This is the stuff younger travelers never think about — but it’s what makes the trip comfortable. Pack your prescriptions, Advil, reading glasses, and maybe a little extra fiber. Travel is less stressful when you’re not desperately hunting for a pharmacy in a foreign language. You can find some great little travel pill containers on Amazon. That’s what I did and it greatly reduces the bulk you run into with a bunch of pill bottles. I’ve learned, though, to include a couple extra days’ worth of medicines just in case your flights get delayed, etc.

What to leave at home: Half a dozen “just-in-case” bottles of vitamins. Bring the basics and call it good.

5. Souvenir Space

One lesson I learned the hard way: always leave room in the suitcase. Whether it’s a t-shirt for the grandkids, a fridge magnet, or that “authentic” hand-carved statue you’ll later regret, it’s nice not to pay for an extra bag on the way home. A friend taught me years ago to bring an empty backpack with you for this kind of thing. I have the perfect packable travel backpack I purchased on Amazon and I bring it along just for this purpose.

What to leave at home: That third pair of jeans you won’t wear anyway. Trust me, future-you will thank you.

The Bottom Line

Packing after 50 isn’t about how much you can cram into your luggage. It’s about traveling light enough to enjoy the trip — and not needing a chiropractor when you get home.

Bring what makes the journey comfortable, practical, and fun. Leave the rest. And remember: if you really need it, chances are you can buy it when you get there.

Last year, I went alone to Australia. Initially, I was worried about bringing all the right stuff. My son in law, who’s originally from there, said to me, “One thing about Australia – we have lots of stores there.” And he was exactly right. So don’t stress over taking EVERYTHING.

Travel smarter, not harder. Your back, your sanity, and your suitcase will thank you.

Babysitting for Grandpas: Thank you, Ms. Rachel

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Babysitting for Grandpas: Thank you, Ms. Rachel

Who the Heck is Ms. Rachel?

What — you don’t know? Well my friend, let me enlighten you.

Until very recently, I had no idea who Ms. Rachel was. And if you don’t have a toddler in your life, you probably wouldn’t have much reason to know who she is either. But let me tell you — the woman is a machine.

Solo Babysitting for the Weekend

Last weekend, I was left in charge of my one-year-old grandson Colin for three full days and nights (by myself, mind you) while my daughter and her husband jetted off cross-country to attend their friends’ wedding. It had been decades since I changed a diaper or tried to decode why a little person was screaming at me… l literally haven’t babysat since my grown kids were babies themselves. Let’s just say I was a little bit out of practice.

Game-Changing Advice

Before leaving, my daughter Sloan dropped this advice on me: “Dad, if things get bad, just turn on Ms. Rachel.”

It didn’t take long for “things to get bad” — or at least what I considered bad in my inexperienced, stressed, grandparent solo babysitter opinion. I mean, how does one define “bad” anyway? To me, a fussy toddler who doesn’t want food, milk, or another toy definitely falls into the “bad” category.

Enter Ms. Rachel

All it took was a button or two on their TV remote control, and wow. I’ve never seen anything like it.

The moment Ms. Rachel appeared on the screen, singing, smiling, and engaging with that high-energy-but-somehow-not-annoying delivery, Colin froze in his play yard. He stood there at the railing, clapping, laughing, and waving his arms for most of the entire hour-long episode.

I was amazed. Colin was amazed.

You rock, Ms. Rachel.

I just kept thinking, “What kind of magic is this? Who is this woman?”

Who is Ms. Rachel, anyway?

For those who don’t know, Ms. Rachel is a preschool teacher turned YouTube sensation whose videos are designed to teach babies and toddlers language, songs, and early skills. To an already-exhausted grandpa just trying to sneak in a bathroom break or eat a sandwich without juggling a toddler at the same time, she was more than just educational — she was necessary.

For the uninitiated, Ms. Rachel sings.

A lot.

Classic nursery rhymes, action songs, “Wheels on the Bus,” “I’m so Happy,” “Walking at the Zoo.” By the end of the weekend, I was singing them. Out loud. To myself. In the kitchen. In the shower. I’m pretty sure I hummed “I’m so Happy” in my sleep.

A Word of Warning

Ms. Rachel’s programs should come with a cautionary label that says, “Warning, these songs are going to stick in your head and you won’t be able to make them go away after you stop watching.”

They burrow into your brain and grab hold like something out of a Sci-Fi movie. The day after I returned home, I found myself in the grocery store singing, “I’m so Happy, I’m so Happy, I’m so Happy!” The cashier shot me a look that said, “You’re such a weirdo.”

I Don’t Think I Could Have Done This Without You, Ms. Rachel

If you’re ever entrusted with a toddler and find yourself teetering on the brink of a meltdown, don’t be afraid to let Ms. Rachel work her magic. She has the power to give you roughly 60 minutes of peace and quiet — and that’s worth more than gold when you’re babysitting a one-year-old by yourself.

I’ll admit it: Colin and I probably watched a whole lot more of Ms. Rachel than we should’ve. I guess time will tell, but as far as I know, neither of us should experience any long-term negative side effects from that.

The biggest downside? Good luck ever getting “I’m So Happy” out of your head. (What is it with that song, anyway?)

Thank you, Ms. Rachel, for playing a major role in my surviving my first solo weekend babysitting experience. I’m not sure I could’ve pulled it off successfully without you.

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