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Grandpa Boot Camp: My First Weekend Babysitting Colin

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As I drove the seven hours it takes to get from my house in Mississippi, to my daughter’s house in Texas, burning through yet another audiobook, I had mixed feelings. I was anxious (fear of the unknown kinda thing) but excited because I thought I was ready…

After all, I successfully raised two healthy, happy kids of my own. How hard could it be to watch my one-year-old grandson Colin for three days while his parents flew cross-country for a wedding?

Spoiler alert: I survived. Colin survived. But man, was I worn out by the time his parents came back. I learned a few things along the way…

The Diaper Comeback Tour

It’s literally been decades since I changed a diaper. Seriously. I mean, the whole “which part of this diaper goes on top and which part goes underneath” thing took me a minute. The problem is compounded when your daughter explains that there are two kinds of diapers – one for daytime, and one for nighttime. But once you get past the “which part goes where” panic, it all comes back to you. Sort of like riding a bike — if the bike smelled weird and wiggled around and grabbed the diaper cream and threw it behind the changing table (that really happened) while you worked on it. Yeah.

Baby Emotions 101

Babies cry. Sometimes for reasons you understand, sometimes for reasons you don’t. There were times when I was convinced Colin was crying just because I looked at him funny. That’s when Sloan’s detailed schedule she had made and had printed out (multiple copies of the same thing, of course) came to the rescue. I referred to that thing multiple times a day. (Pro tip: if you’re babysitting a toddler for more than a few hours, don’t wing it. Ask your kids for the schedule and any specific instructions — written so you can easily refer to it when needed.)

Nap Time Is Sacred

I had forgotten how glorious nap time is — not for the baby, but for me. When Colin took a nap, so did I. Right now, I still work in an office all day, every day and don’t get to take naps in the middle of the day. But dang it boy, those naps sure helped me get ready for the next round of babysitting fun.

Don’t Turn Your Back

You can’t leave a one-year-old alone for more than 12 seconds. (I’m not sure if 12 seconds is the official number, but just to say, you can’t turn your back on them.) Turn away, just for a moment, and he’s eating something he shouldn’t, climbing something he shouldn’t, or finding a way to unlock the mysteries of gravity. The gravity thing is probably the scariest. I mean, no concept at all of why jumping on the couch when you’re across the room is the worst idea ever.

Screen Time (AKA Sanity Time)

Yes, we probably watched too much TV. My daughter actually told me to keep him alive and unharmed and she’d look the other way on how much time we spent watching Ms. Rachel. But when you’re out of tricks and just trying to keep a baby entertained long enough to drink your coffee while it’s still warm, you’ll take all the help you can get. Judge me if you want — I regret nothing.

Bonus Round: The Dog

Now, Sloan also has a dog named Ellie. You’d think the dog would be the easy part. Nope. I have one pet — a Betta fish in a bowl. That’s the extent of my animal experience. I do not know all this dog stuff that so many people take for granted.

Somehow I managed to feed Ellie double portions for a day and a half. She didn’t complain. In fact, she seemed to love my system. I, on the other hand, couldn’t stop wondering, “Why didn’t Sloan leave dog instructions, too?”

I also managed (as far as I know) to keep Ellie from going to the bathroom inside the house. That, to me, feels like a major victory there.

Lesson learned: pets need schedules just like babies do.

Mission Accomplished

In the end, everything went great. Colin was happy, the house was still standing, and I even got Ellie’s feeding back under control. Sloan and Quinn weren’t bothered at all that I burned through entirely too much of the fancy dog food they feed her (that looked super gross to me) and they thanked me about a hundred times, which made me feel really proud.

It reminded me how much I love being a dad — and how much I love being a grandpa. It also reminded me that grandkids are wonderful because, eventually, I can go back home or they go back home with their parents.

I guess my big takeaway from the weekend is that babysitting is tough, but being a grandpa is the best.

What Scuba Diving Has Taught Me About Life

I remember my first time scuba diving in the ocean like it was yesterday. That was 40 years ago. I sat there anxiously on the dive boat, about to roll back into the water.

I’d been in the ocean a lot of times before, having gone to the beach many times as a child. This was different though. No land in sight… choppy water… something I’d never done before (I was questioning my sanity by my just being there)… and a very overwhelming fear of a shark eating me the moment I jumped in. I closed my eyes and said a prayer before going in. Seriously. I thought I was about to die.

Turned out I didn’t die. Matter of fact, I loved it, and would do it many more times over my lifetime. That shark I was so afraid of never showed up and I didn’t run out of air. I’d even get to go diving many years later with my son. Pretty cool stuff.

As I reflect over a lifetime of diving, it has occurred to me that not only have I had a great time scuba diving, I’ve learned a lot about myself. Here are a few things I’ve discovered over the years:

Some Life Lessons

  1. Take The Plunge: Doing something new can be frightening. That’s okay. If there’s something in your life that you want to try, something you’ve never done before, I think it’s important to focus on doing “the thing” and why you want to do “the thing” instead of dwelling on all the reasons why you can’t (or shouldn’t) do it. Excuses are so easy to come up with. Action can take a little more effort, but it can be so worth it.
  2. Gear Up (Invest In Yourself): We’ve gotta have the right stuff to do the job, right? Think about your life. Do you have the right stuff? Here’s a basic one: are you working on your health? I mean, if you’re not trying to stay in decent shape, you’re not really poised to tackle a lot of the new adventures you might otherwise pursue. What are the requirements for the thing you want to try? Are you ready? Do you have the right “gear”?
  3. Navigate the Currents (Go With The Flow): We can’t always control what comes at us next. But we can absolutely control how we respond to life’s curveballs. When life hits you with the unexpected, that’s the time to rise to the challenge and roll on with it.
  4. Try It Anyway – The Unknown May Just Be Amazing: I tell people my favorite scuba diving activity has always been night diving. They typically respond with some kind of response like, “You’re crazy. I’d never do that.” I used to fell the same way – until I tried it. It’s hard to describe what it’s like, but I will tell you, it’s one of the most incredible, enjoyable things I’ve ever done in my life. You never know about things until you try them. So try them!
  5. Make Time For Silence And Reflection: You really feel in tune with your body when the water’s a bit cold and the main sound you can hear is that of your own breathing. I’ve never done much meditating, but I like to think this can be very similar. I think it’s important to have some quiet time along the way in life where you can reflect and learn and grow.
  6. Embrace Self Reliance: You learn this one pretty quickly scuba diving. Sure, you’re supposed to have a dive buddy, but what happens when someone accidentally kicks off your facemask and you’re 65 feet down near the ocean floor? (That has really happened to me before.) Well the good news is, if you were paying attention in your dive class (that’s kind of a joke – how can you not?!?), then you know how to handle that. You pick up your mask, put it on, clear the water out of it, and roll on. Problem solved. Does life kick your mask off sometimes? Heck yeah it does. And what do you do? You pull yourself together and keep going.

Conclusion

It’s funny how similar I’ve found scuba diving and life after 50 (or 60) to be. Life is about exploring. Life – like most great dives – is over with much sooner than we want it to be. It all just goes by much too quickly. Which means we need to embrace life to its fullest – each and every moment of it – even when those moments aren’t expected or even desired sometimes. I heard someone say once, “I want to live until I die.” Pretty solid advice in my opinion.

So what can you do, starting today? You can get out there and live life. You can embrace change and the unknown. Go out with a bang and not with a whimper. Do something that challenges you, excites you, scares you a little, but most of all, grows who you are as a person. You might even give scuba diving a try. I highly recommend it.

You can do this. Go get ’em.

Getting Started With Woodworking

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You’ve figured out how to grill a pretty good steak. You know the best time of day to catch a quick nap. You’ve watched all the action movies and maybe even a few tear-jerkers on Netflix. Now what?

Have you thought about woodworking? I mean, remember that stint in shop class you did way back in junior high? Remember the bookshelf you made? I sure remember mine. We’re so impatient at that age. I remember continually thinking, “Exactly how much longer do I have to sand this thing? Isn’t it smooth enough yet?”

Now you’re older and (hopefully) wiser. But wasn’t that fun when you think back on it? Making something with your own hands… enjoying the process and learning how it’s done? Pretty satisfying stuff. Woodworking is a blend of craftsmanship, creativity, and convincing your spouse that a brand-new table saw would make the perfect addition to your garage.

So, Why Woodworking?

Well frankly, “I’m into woodworking” sounds a whole lot better than “I’ve got nothing to do and am tired of sitting on a park bench feeding the pigeons”. Woodworking gives you a fantastic reason to hang out in your garage without having to fire up your lawnmower. You get to build something real with your own two hands. If you do it right, maybe that thing you build will actually stand up straight and everything. You’ll derive undeniable satisfaction in being able to say, “I made this!” It won’t even matter if “this” is wobbly and jacked up looking. You’ll know you made it and had fun doing it.

What You Need (Versus What You Think You Need)

You might think you need a full array of expensive power tools in order to get started. You don’t. You can get started with simple things you probably already own. And if you get into woodworking seriously, you can always get some fancy stuff later on. Here’s a list of the basic things you should have in order to get started:

  • Space: You don’t have to have a sprawling workshop like the guy in all those YouTube videos. If you can carve out a corner of your garage where you can store some tools and a little lumber, you’re off to a good start. Collect bonus points if you have an old radio out there you can turn on while you work.
  • Tools: It might be tempting to run out and buy every cool new gadget at the hardware store, but let’s begin with the basics – a hammer, a saw, a tape measure, a square, and some sandpaper. You’re also gonna want some wood glue. And maybe you already own a power drill. That’s a plus. There’s no need to plop down $600 for a fancy planer at this point.
  • Materials: Hang onto your money for now. Start with pine. It’s simple, cheap, forgiving, and works great for most beginner projects.
  • A broom: I thought about including that under “Tools” but I decided to mention this one separately. You’re definitely going to need a broom. Cleanup after each work session should become habit. For starters, it’s the safe thing to do – and we want you to be safe. A clean workspace helps you avoid trip and slip hazards. Sawdust, as you may already know, can be quite slick under the right circumstances. Cleaning up after you work also prepares your work area so that the next time you go out there to work, you’ll be ready to jump right in with your project instead of wasting time and dampening your enthusiasm by having to clean up first.
  • Resources: YouTube can definitely be your friend, but watch out when they start slinging words like “heirloom quality” right off the bat. If you’re just getting started, I recommend sticking to beginner projects that require more glue than they do skill.
  • Patience: Woodworking takes time. You have to go into this hobby knowing that. If you’re one of those impatient types who microwaves Pop-Tarts because the toaster takes entirely too long, you might need to look at this as a growth opportunity. The key here is to slow down and enjoy the process.

Some Beginner Projects

  • A Birdhouse: Hey – it’ll be much nicer than many of their other options – however it turns out. Birds aren’t gonna judge your work like humans might. Make ’em a nice house and stick it outside for them (and you) to enjoy.
  • A Simple Shelf: Who doesn’t love a bookshelf? Need a place to store a few books? This will do the trick. Got a bunch of high school band trophies you want to display? Well here you go.
  • A Cutting Board: Why not? Everyone needs a cutting board. If it winds up not being pretty enough to display out in the kitchen, then you’ve got yourself the perfect new cutting board to use when you’re grilling.

Safety First: Let’s Hang Onto Those Fingers

If you’ve made it this far with your original digits – let’s do our best to keep that trend going. Here are some tips to try to keep you out of the ER:

  • Eye Protection: Sawdust in the eye is not cool. And claiming you’ve got that area covered just because you’re already wearing bifocals doesn’t count either. Spring for a decent pair of safety glasses. Don’t take chances here. This is a must.
  • Ear Protection: Power tools (like spouses) can be loud. Check out some ear plugs or noise-canceling earmuffs.
  • Dust Management: Inhaling sawdust. Who wants to do that? Your lungs do not want you doing that. Get a dusk mask. They’re cheap and they can be just the ticket.
  • Proper Footwear: Think before you do woodworking. Are those flip-flops really gonna protect your toes when you drop a chisel? Wear appropriate shoes that do a good job of protecting your feet when you drop things. And you will definitely drop things. We all do.
  • Respect The Tools: That table saw is not a toy. It’s made to cut through whatever it gets a chance to cut. Triple-check where your fingers are before you begin cutting. Are you using something with an edge like a knife or chisel? Remember that a dull knife is an unsafe knife. Make sure your tools are in good shape and you know the safe way to use them.

The Upside: Bragging Rights

There is no shame in strategically displaying your wonky bookshelf where every guest in your home or every video caller (if your kids have shown you how to do that kind of thing yet) will see it. When your family or friends see it and ask, “Where’d you get that?” you can casually say, “Oh that little thing? I made it.” Then watch – and this is the good part – watch their expression as they try to hide their confusion.

Final Thoughts

Woodworking after 50 is a super rewarding way to stay creative, active, and engaged. And it’s way more fun than rearranging your sock drawer again. Just remember this key phrase and you’ll be golden: if you mess it up, we call that “rustic charm”, not a mistake. Now grab a piece of wood, a saw, and a cold beverage. Turn on that radio and build something dude!

The One Simple Magic Trick Every Grandpa Needs

The Removable Thumb Trick

I’m sure you already know this trick. Heck, your grandfather, that goofy uncle from out of town, or some old geezer at the barber shop probably performed it for you a hundred times when you were small. I encourage you to think back and remember the amazement you experienced as a little nipper when you were first shown that confounding little bit of prestidigitation. Don’t you think you should be the person who passes on the wonder of this simple trick to your grandchildren?

This trick has definitely stood the test of time. In addition to giving a whole new meaning to the phrase, “Pull my finger” (let me know if you don’t know that one), it’s been responsible for baffling generation upon generation of children – forever cementing its performer in their minds as one of the first truly cool people they’ve ever known.

For me, that guy was an always-smiling old fellow who collected what I believe I remember was maybe fifty cents for the Wednesday night supper at my church each week. And each week, he never disappointed. Like he’d never, ever shown me before, he’d once again introduce me to the removable thumb trick. I loved it each time. As much as I disliked going to choir after supper, I sure looked forward to seeing that guy pull his thumb off each week.

This trick just may be the fastest, easiest way to impress your grandkids with your mad magic skills without actually having to learn anything difficult, devote years mastering a skill, or spending money on fancy gear to pull this off.

What Makes This Trick So Good For Grandpas

  • Absolutely no setup required – All you need are two thumbs. No other props, special tools, secret “gimmicks”, or other paraphernalia. Oh – you’ll want to bring some showmanship to the party, but we’ll cover that momentarily.
  • It delivers maximum confusion – Your grandkids won’t know what to think when they first see this trick. They will be completely thrown off balance and will still be looking at your thumbs days later trying to figure out how you make the end of yours come off like that.
  • Repeatability – That’s one of the best things about this trick. You can do it over, and over, and over – at a moment’s notice. And get ready grandpa, because if you do it right – and you resist the temptation to tell them how it’s done – you are absolutely going to be requested to perform it “one more time” at every family gathering. The adults in the room may be rolling their eyes, but the little ones will think you are the man.

How to Perform the Removable Thumb Trick

This classic illusion relies on clever hand placement and a bit of acting. In my experience, the angle of your two hands is the biggest key to your success. I definitely recommend practicing this in front of a mirror a few times before attempting to perform it for someone else.

Here’s how you pull it off:

Step-By-Step Instructions: How To Perform The Removable Thumb Trick

To make this easy for you, I’ve taken pictures of myself doing this trick. (Just so you know, this wasn’t super easy to photograph by myself trying to do this. I’ve got a Bluetooth remote control in my right hand for most of these pictures and I’m pressing the tiny red button to take each picture with my little finger. Crazy, huh? It’s amazing what all goes on behind the scenes, right? I think this officially makes you an insider!)

Step 1

This is my left hand. Can you curl your thumb behind your forefinger like this with your left hand? If you can, you are halfway there already.

Step 2

With your forefinger still curled around your thumb, turn your left hand over with your palm facing down, like I’m doing here. At the same time, bend your right thumb back where the tip of it is hidden from someone in front of you as shown in this photo. This is secret stuff here and is important to the trick. Do not let anyone see you doing this part.

Step 3

Now bring the two together, just like I’m doing in this picture. Once you’ve done this part and put both hands together, get the attention of your grandkids. You might say to them, “My thumb is feeling a really loose today – like it’s about to come completely off my hand. Does it look loose to you? It sure feels loose to me…”

Step 4

Wrap the fingers of your left hand over your thumb. Basically, you’re just curling up all the fingers of your left hand around your thumb to cover all that up. Make sense? Continue on with, “I’m sure of it… It’s definitely loose. I can feel it wiggling.”

Step 5

Continue curling up the fingers on your left hand. You’re trying to give the appearance that you’re curling the fingers of your left hand around the completely extended thumb of your right hand. Say, “My whole thumb feels like it’s about to pop right off!”

Step 6

With a bit of exaggeration and straining, quickly pull your left hand away from your right hand. Making a popping noise with your mouth will heighten the effect.

Step 7

Uncurl/open the fingers of your left hand to reveal what appears to be the end of your right thumb. Excitedly exclaim something like “Wow! It came right off!” and make a face like you can’t believe your thumb just came off. Look around at your grandkids to see the expressions on their faces. Notice the angles here. You’re really going to want to practice this part in front of a mirror. If you get the angles wrong, you’ll be able to see the rest of one or both of your thumbs. But get the angles right, and it looks just like this…

Step 8

You also don’t want to stay in Step 7 – the “removed thumb” position for very long. Stay there too long and they’re likely to figure out the secret. As soon as you’re sure everyone’s seen your thumb “removed”, quickly bring your two hands back together just like this. Say something like, “Ahhh. That feels better.”

Step 9

To wrap this trick up, you’ve got to get your hands apart without divulging the secret. The easiest way I know of to transition safely back to both hands apart is to very quickly roll your right hand up, with all the fingers on your right hand going smoothly from a “pointing downward” position to a “pointing toward your grandkids” position, blocking both thumbs. About the time all the fingers on your right hand are pointing in the direction of your grandkids, you’ll find your fingers are blocking both your thumbs. Right at that moment, when both thumbs are blocked, pull both of your hands apart quickly. (Remember at the beginning when I said I was using a tiny remote control to take pictures? I couldn’t perform this move and hang onto the remote control at the same time. Believe me – I tried. So my best advice is to reread what I just wrote and try it yourself in front of a mirror. I think you’ll quickly get the idea!)

How to Really Sell the Illusion

  • Sound Effects – A good “pop” noise when you “detach” the thumb goes a long way. You know how to make a “pop” noise, right? I’m assuming you do. Try it when you pull your thumb off. Make it loud. That’ll get everyone’s attention for sure.
  • Dramatic Reactions – Look shocked and amazed at your own skill. I mean heck, your thumb just came off, right? Look astounded and everyone around you will be confused right along with you.
  • Extend the Magic – Pretend you “accidentally” dropped your thumb and look for it under the couch.
  • Fake a Mistake – Make it seem like your thumb got stuck halfway and act worried.
  • Wiggle the “detached” thumb for dramatic effect. Bonus points for gasping as if even you are amazed at what just happened.

The Reactions You Can Expect

  • Wide-Eyed Wonder – Your grandkids will stare at you like you’re a wizard. (This assumes they’re young. If they’re 15, they’re likely going to be too busy staring at their cell phones to pay any attention to you in the first place. Tweens may roll their eyes, but secretly still wonder how it’s done.)
  • Immediate Replication Attempts – Grandkids will try and fail to do it themselves, keeping them entertained for hours. Remember – if you don’t show them how to do it, you’ll have a memorable trick in your arsenal you can use on them for years.
  • Mildly Annoyed Parents – Your own adult children will be baffled at how you turned their kids into your biggest fans with such a stupid, simple trick “that everyone already knows how to do”… only you beat them to it.

When to Use the Trick

You’re a doggone grandpa, dude! You can use this trick literally anytime. I think the real question isn’t “when to use it?” but “when not to use it?” The answer is, “Anytime”. That said, here are a few golden opportunities for you to shine:

  • Family Gatherings – A surefire way to steal the spotlight from the TV.
  • Dinner Table Distractions – Great for calming down a fussy eater.
  • Bedtime Delays – “One more time, Grandpa!” means they’re not asleep yet, but at least they’re entertained.
  • Bribery – “If you finish your homework, I’ll show you how it’s done… someday.”

The Legacy of the Removable Thumb Trick

This isn’t just a dumb little hand trick—it’s an inheritance. No. It’s legacy. That’s it! A legacy! As grandparents, we all should give intentional thought to the idea of legacy. What exactly will you leave behind when you’re gone? What will everyone remember you for? We want to make sure it’s something outstanding.

Your grandkids will pass this trick down to their own children, claiming it as their own. Your name may not be in any history books, but it will live on in whispered bedtime conversations: “Remember when Grandpa could take off his thumb?”

So, my fellow grandpas, wield your mystical powers wisely, dazzle those grandbabies of yours, and remind the world that you are not just a grandfather—you are a legend.

Go get ’em Grandpa!

Why Do Retired Guys Make Such Great Volunteers?

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Ahhhh, retirement. Finally. No more alarm clocks. No more meetings where you have to embrace the latest company buzzword or metric.

None of that stuff. Anymore.

Only, after a few months of doing not much of anything, it hits you… that itch to do something productive and fulfilling again. And that’s where volunteering pops into your head. And why not? It’s an absolutely perfect gig for a retired dude who what’s to feel useful – without having to forego the right to take an afternoon nap.

Can we be honest? Retired guys make the best volunteers. How come? Simple. Retired guys have the time, skills, and patience. Oh yeah – plus that unending desire to prove we still know more than anyone else around us.

Here are some reasons why every nonprofit, charity, and community organization ought to be scrapping over you like you’re the last roll of toilet paper at a chili party:

  1. We’re actually gonna show up on time
    We’ve spent our entire adult lives being conditioned to show up early for everything. None of those “roll in at noon” stunts that young people want to pull. Heck, after decades spent avoiding butt-chewings by bosses for being late, we’ve totally got this one nailed.
  2. We know how to fix stuff
    How sad is it these days? Millennials may know how to two-handed text someone without looking at their phones, but confront them with a flat tire and see what happens. That’s when they start Googling or checking to see if you can get a tire changed using DoorDash. On the flip side, we’ve got Swiss Army Knives in our pockets and know how to fix most anything with Duct Tape.
  3. We don’t complain (too much, anyway)
    Oh sure – we might tell you how bad our knees hurt or about the latest catch in our backs, but we get the job done. We’re not there to sit around and take breaks. We’re there to make things happen, tell the same story several times, finish up, and head off in time to catch that early bird special deal for seniors at the local eatery.
  4. We have a lifetime of completely useless knowledge to share…
    And believe you me buddy, we are gonna share it, too. Whether you want it or now, we’re about to provide you with an almost endless stream of wisdom we’ve acquired through years of firsthand experience. Take library duty, for example. You think we don’t know all about the Dewey Decimal System? Come on. Think again. We know all about it. All those trips to the library in junior high school made sure of that. And get comfortable. We’re about to tell you all about it.
  5. We’ve got great stories (and buddy, you know we’re gonna share them)
    What do youngsters know? We’re not gonna miss our big chance to enrich all their lives as we regale them with story after store about the first time we saw a fax machine work, using our first TV remote control, or how everything changed when attaching a document to an email became a real thing.
  6. We take what we’re doing seriously
    Okay, well maybe not too seriously. We know volunteering’s important and we’re proud to help. We also know that we’re here to help others without undue stress. Hey, if we wanted performance reviews and coaching talks, we’d still be working.
  7. We’re natural leaders
    We have survived countless inept bosses over our careers. Maybe we weren’t actually in management during our working years, but we got an endless education in what not to do. We do it the logical way. We explain what needs to be done, we delegate, we support, and we let people get things done. Easy peasey.
  8. We’re thrilled to work for coffee and a little conversation
    Heck – give us a hot cup of coffee and someone in our proximity to talk nonstop to about the good old days – and we’re happy as can be. For us, volunteering is as much about socializing with friendly people as it is doing good for others. It’s a true win-win for everyone involved. (Maybe a little less so for the person who’s now hearing the same story for the third time.)

Some final thoughts

If you need a volunteer, you should be checking out retired dudes. Retired guys understand commitment. They’re dependable, have mad skills, and are more than happy to help. And if you’re a retired dude, you should give volunteering a looksee. Hey – there’s no better opportunity to connect with other people and do something good for others – all while fixing things nobody else knew were even broken, teaching young people what it was like back when things were really tough, and telling an endless string of less-than-stellar jokes. We know you are up for the task!

So what are you waiting for? Get out there and volunteer, dude.

Making Friends Over 50: Harder But Worth It

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(A Guide to Making Friends among Older Men)

Things sure have changed, haven’t they?

Remember back when you were a kid? When you could just come home and tell your mom you had a new best friend – right out of the blue? Remember that? The kid in your class or on the playground that you just met and who you bonded with immediately over something like bugs, boogers, or how gross girls were?

Boy. How times have changed. Nowadays, you can see the same guy at the gym every day for years, nod politely at him, and still not know his name. And he probably doesn’t know yours either.

What the what? Why is this so difficult?

I’ve got some theories on this…

  • Maybe we’re all too set in our ways – Face it, we’ve got our favorite restaurants, routines, chairs, the number of sheets of toilet paper we rip off each time… the list is long when it comes to the preferences we’ve formed over a lifetime. Maybe we’re so comfortable in our routines, that the idea of messing with a good thing doesn’t have a whole lot of appeal.
  • Small talk? Really? No thanks – I mean, who wants one more conversation about “all this crazy weather we’re having”? Or sharing what part of you hurt this morning as you sat on the bed, getting ready to stand up, eagerly anticipating the exciting new mystery pain that awaited you when you stood and took your first few post-slumber steps?
  • We’re suspicious of strangers – And understandably so – there are definitely a bunch of weirdos out there. That last “stranger” you talked with at the grocery store only took seconds to swing the conversation over to “a life-changing investment opportunity”. Remember that guy? Who wants another dose of that kind of thing? I think I’ll pass.

Where do you even meet new friends anyway? (Besides Home Depot Aisle 12)

You are already keenly aware that the days of making all your friends at school are long gone. That said, here are some more realistic places to potentially find new friendships:

  1. The Gym – This is a great place to meet health-conscious guys your age. Just be careful with this one. Your innocent conversation could quickly turn into an entire lecture about the latest laxative, protein shake, or workout routine. Maybe you want to talk about that? Cool. Just don’t be “that guy”. Don’t offer up all your worldly advice in one shot or you’ll likely send them running for the door.
  2. Church – If you’re a member of a local church congregation, you likely have countless opportunities to meet other men that you may or may not yet have discovered or taken advantage of. There are men’s prayer breakfasts, volunteer groups, choral groups, leadership roles – the list is long. Most churches offer almost limitless ways to get involved. Definitely something to dig into further.
  3. A Hobby Group – What are you into? Woodworking? Metal Detecting? Classic cars? Chances are, other men are into the same thing. And, if you live in a medium to large city, there’s a decent chance there are clubs and groups for that very thing. I mean, heck – those folks are your folks, right? What a great opportunity to get together with like-minded men to grow in your skills and abilities while developing new friendships.
  4. Volunteer Work – Now here’s a wonderful opportunity to do good for someone else and make friends at the same time. You get the warm fuzzies and the folks you’re helping benefit. That’s a win for everyone involved. Depending on your point of view – and your availability – and assuming you haven’t screwed something up during your time volunteering – there’s a decent chance you’ll be asked to do even more. Maybe even take on a leadership role. If you’re the kind of person who was born to lead, this will be even more fulfilling for you and you’ll grow in your service to others.
  5. Your Barbershop – Who doesn’t love the barbershop? I still remember with great fondness, a trip to the barbershop as a little boy. I was maybe 9 years old. There on a Saturday morning, in just one sitting, a guy getting his hair cut in the chair across from me showed me the first hundred dollar bill I’d ever seen, and I caught sight of a Playboy magazine lying on the table beside me. On top of that, I got a free piece of sour green apple bubble gum at the end of my haircut for being so good. Talk about a triple whammy. I was hooked on the barbershop for life. Try this next time – instead of getting there right on time for your appointment, try getting there early. Tell everyone you were out running errands and finished up early and now your day has opened up, so you thought you’d just come hang out. Think about it. There’s always some kind of big deal discussion going on by the guys sitting around waiting their turn in the chair. This is an excellent opportunity to join in and explore what you might have in common with the other customers there. Just don’t talk too much or hang out too long or your barber may encourage you to hit the road. You definitely don’t want to earn the reputation as the lonely guy who won’t leave and doesn’t know when to shut up.
  6. Your Neighborhood – I heard a phrase one time – “bonding through bitching”. That’s a real thing. People feel a sense of kinship with people who are complaining about a topic everyone in the group can relate to. You’ve seen it in action many times. Think sports teams, coaches, politics, movies, the list goes on and on. It becomes a them versus us kind of thing. And who doesn’t love to get together to complain about their HOA? Depending on the size of your neighborhood, there may be the occasional block party where everyone brings food, their ice chest, and a folding chair. Are you going to those already? Or are you sitting them out because (pick your excuse). These can be an excellent venue to meet folks and discover commonalities you might have with your neighbors. One thing’s for sure – you’ll never know if you don’t go.
  7. Pickleball (or Any Senior Sport) – Where else can you meet new people and pull a hamstring at the same time? Heck – that 70-plus-year old dude in the funky outfit with the knee socks and the shoes with Velcro closures who absolutely destroys you on the court will at least talk to you while he’s kicking your butt. And who knows? The two of you might even become friends.

How to turn an acquaintance into a friend (without it being weird)

Let’s say you’ve found a potential friend—now what? Unlike kids, you can’t just run up and yell, “Wanna play?” (I’m so sorry I wrote that. That is so weird to even think about an adult doing that.) So here’s how to transition from “that dude you recognize” to actual friend:

  1. Begin with Small Talk (Even Though It’s Awful) – You have got to start somewhere, so yeah, you might have to comment on the weather or the big game like a normal person. “Did you catch that basketball game last night?” or “Is the line always this long here?” are two ideas for conversation-starting questions.
  2. Find Common Ground – Doing this well takes good listening skills. Don’t worry though. You can do this. Without making it sound like an interview – definitely don’t do that – ask questions and actually listen to the answers without being so busy thinking of what you’re going to say next. If you both hate paying for parking or agree that bacon makes everything better, you’re off to a strong start.
  3. Suggest a Low-Pressure Activity – Something casual, like grabbing a beer, trying out a nearby restaurant for lunch, watching a ballgame, going to a local car show, or hitting the driving range. Go slowly here and don’t overdo it—nobody wants to feel like they’re being courted. It can also help sometimes to suggest that you’re limited in the amount of time you have available. If the situation dictates, you might say you’ve got to help a friend later move some boxes in his garage – or something along those lines that suggests you’re not gonna try to make the outing last uncomfortably long. I think it can be much less stressful to everyone involved when they know your get-together has an end-time attached to it.
  4. Avoid Desperation – Trying too hard is probably the fastest way in the book to make another grown man feel really uncomfortable. Play it cool. No need to text “Had fun today, let’s do it again” like you’re dating. That’s just weird. Whatever you do – don’t come across as a guy who has absolutely no friends and is desperate for anyone to like him. That just comes across as sad and pitiful. You should always remember that people most enjoy hanging out with people that make them feel better about themselves.
  5. Maintain the Friendship (Without Too Much Effort) – What’s the best thing about friendships between men? They are low, low, low maintenance. That means it’s not necessary to communicate every day. That means you don’t need to text or call or email or send smoke signals or whatever – every day. Guys in normal friend relationships can often go weeks without any form of communication and be just fine with each other. The occasional text that asks, “You still alive dummy (insert the insult of your choosing here)?” can work just fine in most older male friendships.

You’ve got a friend! Some signs you’re officially friends

So how do you know when you’ve crossed that line? The line between acquaintance and actual friend? Some clear signs:

  • He shares a funny meme he found on Facebook with you. No context. He just sends it and you both get it.
  • Neither of you feels the need to have to make small talk—it’s just comfortable for the both of you. The two of you can sit there in silence and it’s not awkward for either of you.
  • He remembers stuff about your life, like your favorite team or that weird hobby you won’t shut up about.
  • He offers to help you move heavy stuff (this is the ultimate sign of true friendship).

Final Thoughts: It’s Worth the Effort

Making new friends after sure 50 isn’t easy, but it’s absolutely worth it. Good friends are an important part of a full life. I mean, you knew that already, right? That’s why you’re reading this article, I expect. They help keep life interesting, keep you laughing, and, most importantly, give you someone to split appetizers with when your wife insists you don’t need your own nachos.

So, get out there. Say hi to that dude you always see at the coffee shop. Join the local pickleball league. Just, for the love of all things holy, don’t say, “We should hang out sometime” in a weirdly intense way. Play it cool, and friendships will happen naturally.

It all starts though, when you get out there around other people who have the potential to share common interests. They’re out there. You just have to find them. The good news? They’re looking for you too.

And if all else fails? Head to Home Depot. Eventually, one of those guys you’ve been nodding at for years may just break down and invite you to lunch.

The Best Travel Products for 2024

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Here are my top picks for travel in 2024. All of these items have been personally tested in the field by none other than yours truly. Check ’em out and I’ll bet you find something that’ll make your adventures even more fun!

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4Monster Hiking Daypack

24L Water Resistant Lightweight Packable Backpack

I’m crazy about this backpack. It’s inexpensive and comes in tons of cool colors and several sizes. It’s light, durable, and super handy. And it packs down into a small, easy-to-carry little bag when not in use. Definitely a must-have travel item for me – if I’m going just about anywhere, this convenient little backpack is going on the trip with me.

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I’ve come up with what I think is one of the best travel hacks ever. I also own one of the 4Monster packable waist packs (see next item below). Here’s what I do when I’m on a trip in a new place: I put the packable backpack in the packable waist pack and wear the waist pack. Inside my waist pack, I also bring an assortment of everyday carry items. When I get somewhere and want to buy t-shirts or whatever, I pull out and unfold the packable back. Then I fold up the packable waist pack and put it in the backpack. I did this all over Australia during a recent trip, swapping back and forth, and it worked like a charm! Your hands are always free with this system!

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4Monster Hiking Waist Pack

Lightweight, Water Resistant Waist Bag

I’m just not sure which I like more – the 4Monster packable backpacks – or the 4Monster packable waist packs. These things are tiny when packed away. Packing them up is super easy, by the way. So functional and handy on a trip. I get so much use out of mine.

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4Monster Hiking Daypack

16L Packable Backpack

Did I mess up? Did I put the same thing on the list twice? Nope! After purchasing and using the 24L packable backpack shown first (above) on this list, I went back and purchased a second one in a 16L size. I struggle to decide which one is the most handy, as both sizes are really useful. On a recent trip to Washington state, I took both this 16L, plus the 24L, plus the packable waist pack. I had all the bases covered for whatever came my way. And because these things pack so small, they took up virtually no room in my suitcase. Highly, highly recommended!

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MANSCAPED® The HandymanTM Compact Face Shaver

Lookin’ sharp with my USB-C Rechargeable Electric Razor

I don’t know exactly where to begin with this one. If you’re like me, you work hard to try to travel as light as possible. My bulky electric razor (the one I use at home on a daily basis) and its charger take up so much space. This thing, on the other hand, is so compact! I also really, really like that you can charge it using USB-C, and you probably already take a USB-C charger with you anyway. Easy, easy, easy. This thing is so much more compact and it does a pretty good job of getting you ready to get out there and find your adventure. It’s worth taking a look.

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Kent KFM4 Folding Hair Brush for Men

Mini Hairbrush

Say what you want – John, I’ve already got a hairbrush – and maybe that’s true, but man, this thing is so convenient and it’s tiny when folded up. I just love how I can pack it and know I’m covered without dealing with a bulky hairbrush. There are a bunch of these available out there and you can definitely find one that’s cheaper. This one costs a little more, but just feels like a quality product to me.

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10 Pack Portable Travel Folding Comb and Brush Combo

A bunch of Mini Hairbrushes!

Here’s the deal… I bought the fancy folding travel brush (above) and just loved it. The concept is brilliant. So I turned around and bought this cheaper 10-pack so I could give folding travel brushes to friends and family. Everyone really likes them!

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3 in 1 Wireless Charging Station for Apple Devices

Easily charge your iPhone, AirPods, and Apple Watch

This inexpensive little travel magnetic charger is a game-changer! I bought one and liked it so much that I bought 4 more –  for my son and his wife, and my daughter and her husband. It’s so convenient when I travel to charge all that stuff using just one device. Ever been somewhere that didn’t have enough outlets to charge all your gear? I sure have. One plug does it all with this little guy. Now I take this with me on every trip.

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Anker Nano Power Bank, 10,000mAh Portable Charger with Built-in USB-C Cable

Easy charging on the go

I have been using this charger a bunch lately, and it has been doing a great job. I like the visual charging gauge when I’m charging it, but my favorite thing is that the USB-C charging cord is already attached to it. That makes it pretty darned convenient for me when my phone’s running low on power and I’m out and about.

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TESSAN Universal Travel Adapter for USA, European, UK, Australia, Ireland (Type C/G/A/I)

International Plug Adaptor with USB C and USB Ports

I’ve purchased two world travel adaptors. Didn’t like the first one very much. This one is the second one I purchased and I like it a lot. (The big difference in this one is the additional USB-C – two USB and two USB-C. That’s a huge deal to me.) I took it with me to Australia and found it to be super easy to use and it worked great everywhere I went. If you buy a travel adapter, try using it at home or on a short domestic trip first to see if it in action. That’s exactly what I did. That way, you can test it out beforehand and make sure you’ve got enough places to plug in your devices.

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Rolling Square inCharge XL 6-in-1 Multi Charging Cable with 100W Ultra-Fast Charging Power

1 Ft/0.3m Long 6-in-1 portable USB and USB-C Charging Cable

I bought one of these in yellow. That’s been a good thing, as I have used it a lot on most every trip I take and have almost left it behind a couple of times. The yellow color makes it easy to spot. Works great and is super convenient.

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Rolling Square inCharge X Multi Charging Cable

Small (Keychain) 6-in-1 Charging Cable

Very similar to the previous (yellow) product – but a good bit smaller, this little guy is really handy. It folds up into something small enough to fit on your keychain. I don’t actually store it that way, but you could. It configures to fit most anything you’d want to charge or power.

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Tomtoc Portable Storage Pouch 

Organize your electronic accessories

First, let me mention that this particular pouch is small – which is good for me as I tend to fill up whatever size I’m using. But it’s fairly flat and a great size for just those essentials you may want to get your hands on during a flight.

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SUNGUY USB-C to USB-C Cable

2 Feet Long, 2 Pack

Just a handy 2 pack of short (2′) cables for general use. Great to have in your bag and the short length means they’re easy to pack and you don’t have wires all over the place.

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TROND Flat Plug Power Strip, 3.3FT Wrapped Short Extension Cord

4 USB (2 USB C and 2 USB A)

I think this little power strip is really handy. It’s great for things like cruises, etc. It’s an extension cord – not a surge protector – with outlets and USB connections that make charging your devices so much easier. The cord wraps around it, making it easy to pack.

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Portable Digital Hanging Baggage Scale

Quickly and easily weigh your suitcase!

Who knew these things were so inexpensive? Yet, they’re soooo handy, and give you tons of peace of mind about your luggage before you head to the airport. Sure, I know, you can just put it on your scale at home. But what about the return trip? Have you ever had to unpack a bag right there in the airport because it was too heavy? I have – twice! Not fun. And in both cases, I was coming back home, so I didn’t have a way to weigh my luggage before heading to the airport. Avoid that headache for good with this inexpensive little guy.

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GOX Travel Toiletry Bag, Dopp Kit Case (Orange)

Large(er) Ultra-Light Toiletry Organizer

But John – I’ve already got a shaving kit, you say… Well, so do I. I still use that big, bulky thang when I’m going somewhere close to home for the weekend. But for anything more, you may want to reduce weight and bulk. This little dude does the trick in high style. And I’m super fond of bright colors for travel items to help me make sure I don’t run off and leave them in a hotel room when I’m rushing to get to the airport.

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GOX Travel Toiletry Bag, Dopp Kit Case (Orange)

Small(er) Ultra-Light Toiletry Organizer

What’s the difference in this one and the one right above it? This one’s smaller. I have both and really like using them. Super handy.

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GOX Small Toiletry Pouch

Toiletry Organizer Bag

What’s up with all this stuff? Are they all the same thing? Nope. Each one is different and has different uses. This one is super handy. I’ll bet you’ll think the same thing if you ever use one. And I’ve already mentioned the virtues of having brightly colored items to help make sure you don’t forget them.

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HERO Neck Wallet – RFID Blocking Passport Holder

Easy to Conceal Travel Pouch

Anxious about keeping an eye on travel essentials? Try this handy little dude out. I recently used it on a trip abroad to store my passport, paper (ugh) boarding passes, bag claim tickets, and local cash – and it worked great. This cool product comes from a neat little family who travels all the time. Check it out.

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Compression Packing Cubes for Travel

Grey and Orange, 6 Piece

Ever tried packing cubes? Maybe you’re the kind of person who just stuffs everything into your bag and hopes it’ll fit. I used to do that… until I showed up somewhere with no socks. No more. Now I designate specific cubes for specific items of clothing. That works great for me and I arrive with everything I’m supposed to have and it doesn’t look like it just went through a hurricane. Compression cubes allow you to pack your stuff and then tighten up the size of the bag, letting you fit a lot of clothing into a small space. Super handy.

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Sony WH-1000XM4 Wireless Premium Noise Canceling Headphones

(Or you could always just listen to babies cry the entire trip)

I’m a big believer in noise canceling headphones – especially on airplanes. These fit OVER (versus ON) your ear, so they’re comfortable, even on long flights. I mean, yeah, it’s fun listening to the guy behind you talk for two hours about his last hernia operaton and all, but hey, why not pass on that on your next trip?

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UNIQUEBELLA Carry-on Garment/Suit Travel Bag with Shoe Pouch

(This one solved a big dilemma for me.)

Question: How do you get a suit, dress shirts, ties, and dress shoes to your daughter’s wedding that’s on the opposite side of the country? With this thing, of course. I was so skeptical about this item. I compared products for a long time before ever pulling the trigger on this particular one. But, I’ve gotta say, this bag was a fantastic choice for me. Worked great, fit within the airlines’ carry-on guidelines, and got my clothes there and back looking neat and tidy. That freed me up to spend all my time worrrying about my father-of-the-bride speech!

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Thule Garment Folder

Get your shirts to your destination looking sharp.

I’ve got two of these. Depending on the situation, if I’m going to a long meeting and have a lot of stuff, I might put shirts in one, and pants in the other. Very handy and definitely recommended.

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